Thinking Ahead of TIME

I have been working on stuffs that impact in a great way to my company. Imagine if I am not there? The profit and loss according to a professional organization will not be affected on my absence because they can easily replace me with a new candidate. The only thing that helps me is knowledge accumulated over the time and nothing mind blowing or surprising. The job just gives you the salary and that is it. So why hover around the job in tension and waste additional time which is for leisure time with family. The career is important for all and so is that to me. Why not spent quality time on jobs and then rest in cool air? Did that give you some sense?

Just give it a thought. How drastic it is to be without the family or you are no more a part of your family. Somehow your family lost you due to an irrevocable death at adverse time. At a young age you lost life due to an accident, incurable chronic disease or something worse as being killed by some quotation crews. Living in Gods own Country is something to be feared off at large…: P.

Coming to the matter...

Can your family survive without your presence? Do the vegetables, groceries, phone bills, electricity bills and what more school fees, shopping expenses get addressed to by someone else? Does the family get the needy when you are not around for even an hour? Does cooking, cleaning, washing are in regular rhythm as they are on a routine basis? Confused? Did you ever think about that? If you are the soul bread earner of the family and you are the protector can your family adjusts without you accordingly?

And then the “Missing factor “which everyone faces during your absence. How desperate it is to live without a minute without you is the crux .The family largely depended on you will become orphaned and left unattended . The December Solstice has cast on your family. How much impact you caused on your parents, siblings, spouse and children when you sleep in an “elegant coffin” covered with white clothe. Did your post mortem/police case caused them pangs or palpitations of a greater degree?.How will you know that?

What not will your mother/wife be happy again without you? Will she ever wear good accessories and clothes without you around? Will she ever show her face to the society and the world around her? What about the emotional distress under these circumstances? Will it go within 2 to 4 years? Your father’s expectation all these years have been doomed and he lay uncared at this old age. Who will look after their needs?

Think about it and don’t get frustrated for silly matters because your family needs you… :P